Relationships

When the magi rode camels over many hundreds of miles to find a baby, what were they seeking? Just to gaze upon an infant? Hardly! I believe they were searching for a relationship. During almost 40 years of twelve-step work, professional therapy, Bible study, and self-searching, one lesson has stood out for me: people are far more important than things. Why? Because they lead to relationships, which, if you’re lucky, give one that precious, most priceless gift, the feeling of belonging! I always knew I belonged to my parents, but never gave it much thought or value—took it for granted. Later I knew I belonged to my wife, but never analyzed it. When it came to Jesus, I had head-knowledge of his love for me, but it didn’t impact my daily living. Recently He’s let me in on this tremendous secret: I BELONG TO HIM, and him to me! No matter what happens, this truth is eternal. The same is true for my wife, my most valuable earthly connection, my best friend. The feeling—the certainty—of BELONGING is, at times, overwhelming. And I BELONG to my Church. I’m a vital part of other people’s lives. I never need to feel alone again. What a gift!