How We Ask to Pray

Considering how much of Jesus’s recorded ministry on earth was taken up praying for somebody’s healing, and considering that, as his followers, we probably ought to be doing some of that, these questions seem relevant. As we analyze the language we use, what’s the difference among 1. Do you mind if I pray for you?”, 2. I’d like to pray for you—is that OK?”, 3. “May I pray for you?”, and 4. “I’m going to pray for you.”? Subtle but vital distinctions present themselves. Are we hesitant in asking, even almost ashamed, half-expecting a “no”? Do we feel apologetic in asking? Are we too forthright, announcing our intention without considering the other’s feelings? Or is it a simple request, with no hidden meaning whatsoever? Are these just differences in style, or do they reveal something about us and our faith? Perhaps the most important of all, do we ever even think about, or offer, to pray for someone who needs healing? Is this important? Is it just too much to expect?